Barack Obama’s former brother-in-law, Ian Manners, blogs from his Berkshire home
I was married to Barack Obama’s elder sister, Auma for 4 years; we had a relationship for 10 years. During this time I got to know Barack reasonably well. I found him to be charming, polite, very intelligent and at ease in anyone’s company. He treated everyone he met with respect and as equals regardless of the position they held in society and regardless of race. I am a competitive sportsman and am the managing director of my own company. As a
result I have had to deal with all sorts of situations as they arise and different people from all walks of life. I therefore consider myself to be a reasonably good judge of character.
I had the opportunity on several occasions to play golf with Barack. It is on the sports field you can often judge someone’s character. I found Barack to be a very capable golfer. He played hard and competitively but fairly. He had a quiet steely determination and he remained very calm under pressure.
He has been accused of being too young and inexperienced to be President of the USA. I for one do not believe that to be the case. No one person can claim to have the experience to be President. They can have a good idea what the job entails but until they actually reach that position no one knows what it is truly like or how they as individuals will react. Every President or every Managing Director or anyone in employment learns on the job.
I believe Barack has the ability and attributes to be a very good President. He is up to speed with the modern world and technology and his campaign bears that out. He is very well educated and has learned how tough life can be by growing up without a father close to him. His mother and maternal grandparents however showed him that you can only get on in life by sheer hard work and determination and they made sacrifices to give him a private education. They taught him to have a very balanced view of life and to treat everyone as equals. They taught him humility and how to empathise with people of all ages and races.
He has experience of how tough life is by working on the south side of Chicago in the community projects for three years. He has experience of being a State Senator and then on to be a full Senator for Illinois and now Washington and Government functions. He also has a good understanding and appreciation of different cultures.
I have watched his progress with great pride. I have watched his success in the campaign so far in the Presidential campaign. I have watched the reaction people have to him not only in the USA but the
reaction around the world. He has a rare quality and the ability to break down barriers. The rally in Berlin was a shining example. I was on holiday in Scotland at the time and ‘working out’ in a gym with 20 others. All the TV’s were tuned into the News Channels and when he came on to speak everyone in the gym stopped for 5-10 minutes to listen to him. It was a remarkable moment. There were men and women of all ages in the gym.
I have spent the last two weeks in Kenya visiting my daughter Akinyi who is at school here and was on half term. I have followed the campaign on the TV and in the papers. The response to him has been phenomenal. The interest goes beyond his Kenyan heritage. I have spoken to Kenyans and Europeans here and the majority agree he is a truly remarkable man who has the ability to help bring about world peace and help in the battle to reduce poverty the world over.
I believe he will be an inspirational President at a particular difficult time with the world economy. I think he will surround himself with very capable people to assist him in overcoming all the problems thrown at him. He doesn’t suffer fools gladly or prima donnas and he is a man who is prepared to listen to advice. I believe he will be an exceptional President. He is an exceptionally gifted man.
Best wishes
Ian